Hello, good morning lovely ladies. I'm a bit late today. I usually write this late in the evening and post it at midnight. But yesterday we spent a gruelling day at the hospital and we both flopped into bed as soon as we got home (around 9 pm).Hubby has started his radiotherapy treatment but then also developed a bleed, which later stopped. They sent him home. This morning the ambulance picked him up at seven for his appointment at 9:30 (we live a long way away from this hospital as our local hospital doesn't have radiotherapy equipment). We'll see how this pans out, in the meantime I have time to write this blog and it will take my mind off things.
Today I have a card from India for you. From Hyderabad in fact.
The Charminar (lit. 'four minarets') constructed in 1591, is a monument located in Hyderabad, Telangana, India.
The landmark has become known globally as a symbol of Hyderabad and is listed among the most recognised structures in India. The Charminar's long history includes the existence of a mosque on its top floor for more than 425 years. The reason behind building such an architectural marvel remains unclear, though it is widely accepted that the Charminar was built to commemorate the eradication of the plague which was widespread during that period in the city. According to Jean de Thévenot, a French traveler of the 17th century whose narration was complemented with the available Persian texts, the construction was done to celebrate the beginning of the second Islamic millennium year. Others have come to believe that the king erected the structure at the very spot where he first laid his eyes on his future begum (wife), Bhagmati.
While both historically and religiously significant, it is also known for its popular and busy local markets surrounding the structure, and has become one of the most frequented tourist attractions in Hyderabad.
Charminar is also a site of numerous festival celebrations, as it is adjacent to main mosque of the city Makkah Masjid across the road.
The stamps are pretty. This one is about the fashion industry:
Tilak was one of the first and strongest advocates of Swaraj ("self-rule") and a strong radical in Indian consciousness. He is known for his quote in Marathi: "Swaraj is my birthright and I shall have it!".
But.... he was very conservative when it came to women. I have very strong views about rights for women, so I didn't like this aspect of this apparently respected man. Read the following (or skip it if not interested):
Social views against women
Tilak was strongly opposed to liberal trends emerging in Pune such as women's rights and social reforms against untouchability.[41][42][43] Tilak vehemently opposed the establishment of the first Native girls High school (now called Huzurpaga) in Pune in 1885 and its curriculum using his newspapers, the Mahratta and Kesari.[42][44][45] Tilak was also opposed to intercaste marriage, particularly the match where an upper caste woman married a lower caste man.[45] In the case of Deshasthas, Chitpawans and Karhades, he encouraged these three Maharashtrian Brahmin groups to give up "caste exclusiveness" and intermarry.[a] Tilak officially opposed the age of consent bill which raised the age of marriage from ten to twelve for girls, however he was willing to sign a circular that increased age of marriage for girls to sixteen and twenty for boys.[47]
Child bride Rukhmabai was married at the age of eleven but refused to go and live with her husband. The husband sued for restitution of conjugal rights, initially lost but appealed the decision. On 4 March 1887, Justice Farran, using interpretations of Hindu laws, ordered Rukhmabai to "go live with her husband or face six months of imprisonment". Tilak approved of this decision of the court and said that the court was following Hindu Dharmaśāstras. Rukhmabai responded that she would rather face imprisonment than obey the verdict. Her marriage was later dissolved by Queen Victoria. Later, she went on to receive her Doctor of Medicine degree from the London School of Medicine for Women.[48][49][50][51]
In 1890, when an eleven-year-old Phulamani Bai died while having sexual intercourse with her much older husband, the Parsi social reformer Behramji Malabari supported the Age of Consent Act, 1891 to raise the age of a girl's eligibility for marriage. Tilak opposed the Bill and said that the Parsis as well as the English had no jurisdiction over the (Hindu) religious matters. He blamed the girl for having "defective female organs" and questioned how the husband could be "persecuted diabolically for doing a harmless act". He called the girl one of those "dangerous freaks of nature".[43] Tilak did not have a progressive view when it came to gender relations. He did not believe that Hindu women should get a modern education. Rather, he had a more conservative view, believing that women were meant to be homemakers who had to subordinate themselves to the needs of their husbands and children.[11] Tilak refused to sign a petition for the abolition of untouchability in 1918, two years before his death, although he had spoken against it earlier in a meeting.
As today is T for Tuesday, I will join the T-Party hosted by Elizabeth and Bluebeard. I need a drink or drink related photo.
16 comments:
Lovely postcard and stamps. Your wine looks great. My favorite is your picture of your sweet smiling husband.
Giant hugz to you both as you face these tough medical days. I know it is hard on you both. Prayers sent up as well.
Hyderabad has always seemed very remote, and your description was enlightening.
I hope your husband's health improves and responds to his treatment. You are doing a wonderful job of supporting him and keeping up your morale.
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Good morning Lisca, I always enjoy reading about the history with your postcards-Loving these stamps too so different.
Hoping the treatments get easier, less stress if he can get picked up too. prayers for you both
Love those little wine boxes-perfect for just a glass.
Happy T hugs Kathy
I hope your husband is doing OK Lisca. I can understand your concern with all his medical procedures. He's seems like such a busy and active man that it must be hard for you to see him in the hospital, never mind knowing what he is going through. And I found your info about the postcard and stamps interesting. I know there are many religions in India, but I wouldn't have suspected a mosque on the postcard. It looks very Islamic though. It is a beautiful structure and I'm glad you shared it. The story of Tilak was bothersome though. I can't image a girl of 11 or 12 being married to a much older man, never mind being ready for sexual relations. Although it was another time, it is still hard to read about. And the caste system in India is also quite old fashion. Though I know we have castes everywhere, we just have opportunities through education to make our lives better. And of course we don't call them castes either do we? (Not that that makes it any less similar in many ways.) Thanks for this thought provoking post. I'm thinking of you also. hugs-Erika
Hi Lisca!! I've been gone awhile but i have so missed the T Ladies. I'm happy to see you are still partying . I'm so to read about your husband having health trouble... I know what he's going through is difficult but i know first hand how difficult it must be for you too. Around the time i left the Tparty my hubby had quadruple heart bypass surgery then blood clots.. Knock on wood he's doing good now.. going off to play a day of golf today.. Hang in there Lisca. Your doing a wonderful job supporting him.. Sending you both hugs across the miles.
Always love seeing your PostCards and stamps and reading the history. You put so much work into your posts. Happy happy Tday! Hugs! deb
I'm sorry about the health complications :(
The little box wine looks like something that would work for me. Thanks for this idea. Happy T Tuesday
Wonderful post but I can read that you are tired and worried. Prayers sent to you and Graham. Get some rest.
Oh, I am sorry it all is so hard on you. I sadly sure know how it is.
The Indian buikding sure is impressive.
11 years old. Oh, my.
Tea vera beer is tough, too!
To better times, at least your Hubby can smile - happy T-Day, hugs from here
It must be difficult for both you and hubby right now. Nice to see he's smiling and keeping up his spirits through it all. Sending hugs and prayers. Great postcards- and those fashion stamps are beautiful. That city of Hyderabad looks quite interesting and bustling for sure. The mosque is just amazing! We can readily get those monodose boxes of wine- along with a nice selection of grape varietals and labels. They're nice to have to take on a picnic;). Wishing you both better days ahead. Happy T day!
Always fun to see your postcards, stamps, and learn a little something along the way. I hope your husband is doing better. He has such a nice smile. Take care. Happy T Day
Sorry you must go through these grueling times. I hope Graham improves today and they find where the bleed is.
Thanks for all the information on Hyderabad. I know practically nothing about India after the British gave it back to them. I also enjoyed the stamps and reading about Tilak. Too bad a man who could seem so respected on one side, could have such contempt for women on the other.
I enjoyed seeing how you photographed the wine from the box. Very clever. At first, I thought it was some kind of illusion. Thanks for sharing your postcard, stamps, wine, and Graham's coffee with us for T this Tuesday. Let's hope things are looking up by the time you read this, dear friend.
I am sorry to hear that your hubby is having complications. Praying that they are able to find out the source of the bleed.
Your postcards and stamps are beautiful and a lot of very interesting information.
Happy Tea Day,
Kate
Sorry to hear about your hubby, I hope he's feeling much better soon! Thinking of you both and wishing you well ❤️. Happy T Day! Hugs Jo x
Just a flying visit, I'm late and tying to catch up. Great postcards, but I like the stamps best! All the best for your hubby, hugs, Valerie
I really like the fashion stamps. So interesting; thank you. I sure hope things go well for your husband. Have a great week. I am even later than Valerie!
lol looks like you were trying to get the last drops from that mini box of wine. I love the fashion stamps and first day cover. I used to collect those... So sorry, RL got in the way, and I am terribly late. Happy T Day! Elle/EOTC xx
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